Two workers cover alternating shifts on the same roster for a year and barely exchange more than a handover note. One of them has been leaving the kitchen a mess most nights. The other has noticed, said nothing, and let a small irritation grow into genuine resentment, all without a single direct conversation happening. It's an easy trap in shift-based work, where colleagues might see each other once a fortnight, and the awkwardness of raising something small feels bigger than it would in a workplace where people see each other every day.
Feedback in support work runs in more directions than most jobs. Peers, supervisors, the person being supported, their family, all of them have something worth hearing and saying, and the skill isn't a formal performance-review conversation. It's the ordinary capacity for honest, two-way communication that keeps small issues small.
Why does feedback between shift workers get avoided?
Low contact frequency is the main reason. Workers on alternating shifts, or casuals covering different days, don't build the kind of rapport that makes a direct comment feel low-stakes. So issues get carried silently, sometimes for months, until they either resolve themselves or explode into something bigger than the original issue warranted.
How should feedback actually be delivered?
Specific and close to the moment, rather than vague and delayed. "The dishes were left again last night" lands better and is fairer than a general comment about someone not pulling their weight, raised weeks later without context. Naming the actual behaviour, rather than a character judgement about the person, keeps the conversation about the thing that can change.
How should a worker receive feedback without getting defensive?
Hear the whole point before responding. The instinct to explain, justify or minimise fires fast and it's worth noticing rather than acting on immediately. A short pause, a genuine "can you say more about that", and taking the feedback at face value before deciding how to respond usually leads to a better outcome than an instant defence.
What about feedback from the person being supported?
It deserves real weight, not polite acknowledgement. The person receiving support has the clearest view of whether the approach is actually working for them day to day, and their feedback about a worker's own style or habits is some of the most useful information available, even when it's uncomfortable to hear. Actively inviting it, rather than waiting for it to surface as a complaint, is the stronger practice.
What about feedback from family members that feels unfair?
Hear it fully before deciding. Some family feedback points at a genuine gap in support that's worth acting on. Some reflects a difference in expectations, a family wanting something the person themselves hasn't asked for, that isn't the worker's job to meet. Both deserve a considered response rather than a defensive one, and a team leader is a useful sounding board when it's hard to tell which is which.
The habit worth building
Raise small things early and specifically. A one-minute conversation about something minor is almost always easier than the conversation that happens after it's built up for months.
How CORA's course fits into this
CORA's course Giving & Receiving Feedback (Frontline Workers), part of the Soft Skills stream in the course library, covers giving and receiving feedback with peers, supervisors, the person you support, and their family, building the capacity for honest, ongoing two-way communication. It builds understanding and judgement. It doesn't replace supervision, and CORA doesn't certify a worker's competence, that assessment sits with the provider.
If you're mapping this alongside the rest of the Soft Skills stream for your team, the Pathway Builder is a free tool that maps it out, no sign-up required. Or request a demo if you'd rather talk it through.
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Why do support workers avoid giving feedback to colleagues?
Usually because shift-based teams see each other rarely, which makes a direct conversation feel more awkward than it would in an office with daily contact. It's easier to let a small issue slide, until it repeats enough times that it stops being small.
How should a worker receive critical feedback without getting defensive?
Listen to the whole point before responding, resist the urge to immediately explain or justify, and ask a clarifying question if it isn't clear. Defensiveness is a natural first reaction. The skill is not acting on that first reaction.
Can the person being supported give a support worker feedback?
Yes, and it should be actively welcomed, not just tolerated. The person receiving support has the clearest view of whether it's actually working for them, and their feedback carries real weight, even when it's about the worker's own approach.
What if feedback from a family member feels unfair?
Hear it out fully before deciding whether it's fair. Some feedback from family reflects a real gap in support. Some reflects a difference in expectations that isn't the worker's job to meet. Both are worth thinking through rather than dismissing on reflex.
Sources and further reading
- NDIS Code of Conduct, NDIS Quality and Safeguards Commission
- Handling feedback and complaints, a worker's guide, CORA Workforce
This page is general information for support workers and providers, not professional advice. Always follow your organisation's policies and the person's individual support plan.
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